Highlights:

• Learn the most common signs of elder abuse and neglect

• Get guidance on how to vet home care and senior services

• Discover how the tendercare app helps families track care and choose trusted providers

June 15 is World Elder Abuse Awareness Day - a crucial reminder that protecting aging parents and loved ones starts with education, vigilance, and compassion.

Elder abuse doesn’t always look like bruises or shouting. It can be subtle, hidden behind closed doors or masked by silence. Whether your loved one lives at home, in assisted living, or receives part-time caregiving support, knowing the warning signs of abuse and how to choose safe, reputable services could save a life—or at the very least, protect someone’s dignity.

The Most Common Signs of Elder Abuse

Elder abuse can take many forms: physical, emotional, financial, or even neglect. Often, the signs aren’t obvious; but they’re there if you know what to watch for.

Here are some of the biggest red flags:

• Unexplained injuries: Bruises, burns, or fractures with vague or inconsistent explanations

• Sudden withdrawal or depression: A once-social parent becomes quiet, anxious, or fearful

• Changes in hygiene or weight: Signs of neglect include soiled clothing, bedsores, or malnutrition

• Missing money or strange financial activity: Unpaid bills, disappearing valuables, or new “friends” gaining access to accounts

• Caregiver behavior: Aggressive speech, isolation tactics, or discouraging visits from family

If your gut tells you something is wrong, listen. Elder abuse often goes unreported - especially if the victim fears retaliation or feels ashamed.

How to Choose Safe, Vetted Eldercare Services

Selecting the right caregiver or senior service provider can feel overwhelming. But a few clear markers can help you avoid risky choices and find support you can trust.

✅ What to Look For:

• Licensing & insurance: Always confirm that individuals or agencies are certified to provide care in your state

• Background checks: Reputable providers screen all employees thoroughly

• Clear contracts: Transparent pricing, service agreements, and cancellation policies

• Experience with seniors: Especially with dementia, mobility issues, or chronic conditions

• References & reviews: Ask for referrals and read third-party reviews from other families

🚩 Red Flags to Avoid:

• Vague or evasive answers to your questions

• No written service agreements

• High-pressure sales tactics or unsolicited offers

• Inconsistencies in staff or scheduling

• Lack of transparency around pricing or caregiver qualifications

How tendercare Helps Protect Your Loved Ones

Finding trustworthy help and tracking the care your loved one receives is hard. That’s part of why we built tendercare.

tendercare is a free caregiving app that helps families organize caregiving, track important tasks (like medications or appointments), and coordinate with others. But it also goes further:

• We’re building a Trusted Network of senior care businesses - so you can browse vetted providers, not just anyone with a flyer

• You can log and share notes about caregivers, daily health, or unusual behaviors to spot patterns early

• And if something doesn’t feel right, you can act quickly - with everything documented and accessible

Elder abuse thrives in the dark. tendercare helps bring transparency, structure, and peace of mind to caregiving.

Summary:

World Elder Abuse Awareness Day is a vital reminder to stay alert, ask questions, and protect our aging loved ones from harm. Look for the signs, trust your instincts, and make sure the services you choose are truly worthy of your trust. With tools like tendercare app, families can stay informed, connected, and confident in the care their loved ones receive.