Caring for an aging parent, or planning for yourself?
tendercare is your place to start when aging gets complicated. It begins with your free tenderID, instant emergency info for first responders, then helps you get organized and find trusted help from our local vetted network.

Memory Loss & Dementia
Dementia care is a lot. You don't have to carry it alone.
The wandering. The repeated questions. The fear of a call you can't answer in time. Families navigating dementia come to tendercare because we've walked this with thousands of them, and we know what actually helps.
Get $2,500+ Medicare-covered dementia support

“With dementia, the ground keeps shifting...new symptoms, new decisions, new fears. We help families see what's coming, choose the next right step, and stop carrying it all alone.”
Lisa Sherrill — Lead Care Navigator, tendercare
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When every second counts, tenderID speaks
tenderID is a fridge decal and wallet card with a QR code that gives first responders instant access to critical information—medications, conditions, allergies, and who to call. One scan, no app required.

Help you can actually trust
Finding someone reliable shouldn't mean calling strangers and hoping for the best. The tendercare Trusted Network is the only vetted national network for elder care with over 441,000+ professionals matched to your family's needs.
Every professional in the Trusted Network earns their place. No ads, no paid placement, no bidding for the top spot. Just providers who passed a rigorous review, over 20+ hours each.
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Medicare Guide Program
Caring for someone with dementia? Medicare can help.
The Medicare GUIDE Program covers $2,500+ a year in respite care, plus a dedicated care navigator and 24/7 support, at no cost to you.
Moments when tendercare made the difference
"I don't have time to Google 20 different things, tendercare narrowed it down fast, and I could trust the people listed - they'd already been vetted. It saved me hours I didn't have."
Cares for dad with Alzheimer's
"What a miracle. I spent 10 years caring for my parents and even after 20+ years in healthcare, I made it up as I went. It was the hardest time of my life. I'm grateful others won't have to go through what we did."
Cared for parents
The first step is the easy one
With tendercare, you don’t need to have it all figured out. Start with a free tenderID, and we’ll help from there.








