Caring for an aging parent, or planning for yourself?
tendercare is your place to start when aging gets complicated. It begins with your free tenderID, instant emergency info for first responders, then helps you get organized and find trusted help from our local vetted network.
Your info is never sold or shared. Private & encrypted.
Memory Loss & Dementia
Dementia care is a lot. You don't have to carry it alone.
The wandering. The repeated questions. The fear of a call you can't answer in time. Families navigating dementia come to tendercare because we've walked this with thousands of them, and we know what actually helps.
Get $2,500+ Medicare- covered dementia support
“With dementia, the ground keeps shifting...new symptoms, new decisions, new fears. We help families see what's coming, choose the next right step, and stop carrying it all alone.”
Lisa Sherrill — Lead Care Navigator, tendercare
20+ years in Elder Care
Cares for daughter & parents
Mobility & falls
One fall changes everything. Be ready before the next one.
A fall rarely stays a one-time thing. Stairs, appointments, getting through the day safely, it adds up fast. tendercare connects you with vetted help nearby, so the right support is in place before the next emergency, not after.
“After Mom's fall I needed help fast and had no idea who to trust. tendercare matched us with someone vetted in days, not weeks.”
Patricia — Caring for her mother after a fall
Neurological conditions
A hard diagnosis. A clearer path forward.
Parkinson's, ALS, a stroke recovery — neurological care changes fast and asks a lot of the whole family. tendercare helps you track what's changing, prepare for every appointment, and find specialists who know these conditions, so you're a step ahead, not scrambling.
“Dad's Parkinson's moved faster than we expected. Having his whole picture in one place meant everyone was always on the same page.”
Marcus — Caring for his father with Parkinson's
Chronic illness
Managing it day to day shouldn't fall on you alone.
Diabetes, heart disease, COPD — chronic conditions mean constant tracking, refills, and appointments that never really stop. tendercare keeps the whole picture in one place and helps you find steady, vetted support so nothing slips through.
“When my mom started declining, I didn't even know what kind of help to look for. It was all a blur. tendercare helped me focus...in minutes, I had a short list of people who actually made sense for us.”
Rachel — Cares for mom while working full time
A new diagnosis
Just got the news? Start here.
A new diagnosis brings a flood of questions and no clear first step. tendercare gives you one — set up the emergency info every family should have, then build the rest of your plan at your own pace, with help when you're ready for it.
“tendercare has given us such confidence and security for we have so many medical issues...but this app/ID is a true godsend to us, thank you from the bottom of our hearts!”
Daniel & Charlene
Aging at home
Staying home takes a plan. We'll help you build it.
Most families want to keep mom or dad at home as long as it's safe. That takes preparation, the right help, and a way to stay ahead of what's next. Start with the one thing every household should have ready, and we'll help with the rest.
“My parents had a severe storm cell pop up out of no where. I kept getting alerts for my parents... and I sent a follow-up message and my mom was so grateful I checked. I admitted that tendercare tipped me off and she was so appreciative...”
Kym — Caring for her parents from afar
Protected
Bank-level AES-256 encryption.
Private
HIPAA-aligned. Built to healthcare privacy standards.
Yours
Data is never sold. You control what's shared.
Wandering, falls, ER visits + more
When every second counts, tenderID speaks
tenderID is a fridge decal and wallet card with a QR code that gives first responders instant access to critical information—medications, conditions, allergies, and who to call. One scan, no app required.
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Nationwide Trusted Network
4.9 Avg Rating
20+ Specialties
Help you can actually trust
Finding someone reliable shouldn't mean calling strangers and hoping for the best. The tendercare Trusted Network is the only vetted national network for elder care with over 441,000+ professionals matched to your family's needs.
Every professional in the Trusted Network earns their place. No ads, no paid placement, no bidding for the top spot. Just providers who passed a rigorous review, over 20+ hours each.
"The last thing you need is endless googling or guessing who to trust..."
Hours Saved
"I don't have time to Google 20 different things, tendercare narrowed it down fast, and I could trust the people listed - they'd already been vetted. It saved me hours I didn't have."
Carlos M. Cares for dad with Alzheimer's
EMS Called to House
"In a minute of panic, it's really hard to get your thoughts straight and..."
Peace of Mind
"This gives you peace of mind the choices you're making are good ones..."
Parent in Hospital
"My father was the keeper of all info, I knew nothing before tendercare..."
What I wish I had
"What a miracle. I spent 10 years caring for my parents and even after 20+ years in healthcare, I made it up as I went. It was the hardest time of my life. I'm grateful others won't have to go through what we did."
Cynthia A. Cared for parents
EMS Review of tenderID
"They pull out a paper with a list of meds that's been folded 18 times..."
The first step is the easy one
With tendercare, you don’t need to have it all figured out. Start with a free tenderID, and we’ll help from there.