Finding trustworthy, paid in-home support for aging parents and loved ones is a crucial decision. This guide will help you assess needs, explore options, and make informed choices about in-home support. It will also help you understand what to consider.
Make a detailed list of needed assistance, covering:
Personal Care:
Bathing and grooming
Mobility assistance
Medication management
Special diet preparation
Daily Living Support:
Meal preparation
Light housekeeping
Transportation needs
Shopping and errands
Social activities
Agency Support:
Professional screening and training
Backup coverage available
Higher costs but less administrative work
Insurance and liability coverage included
Independent Support:
Often more cost-effective
Greater flexibility in scheduling
More control over selection
Direct relationship with the helper
Check insurance coverage
Explore Medicare/Medicaid benefits
Look into long-term care policies
Research VA benefits if applicable
Calculate out-of-pocket costs
Looking for a place to house it all? Use the Vault on tendercare to store this and other pivotal information for easy reference and sharing in the future
Be sure to include:
Required tasks and responsibilities
Schedule and time commitments
Special skills needed
Physical requirements
Transportation requirements
Pet care, if needed
Agency Route:
Research local agencies
Check licenses and accreditation
Read reviews and testimonials
Request references
Compare costs and services
Independent Route:
Post on trusted care websites
Ask for recommendations
Check local senior centers
Contact community organizations
Use online job boards
For Agencies:
Interview agency representatives
Ask about screening processes
Review placement policies
Understand supervision practices
Check replacement procedures
For Independent Helpers:
Conduct background checks
Verify references
Check certifications
Schedule interviews
Document findings in tendercare
Ask about:
Relevant experience
Training and certifications
Emergency handling
Schedule flexibility
Transportation ability
Communication style
Store notes securely in tendercare
Keep in a tendercare Vault:
Background check results
Reference information
Certifications and licenses
Insurance documentation
Emergency contacts
Important agreements
Pro Tips:
Trust your instincts during interviews
Consider a trial period
Have backup options ready
Keep family members informed
Document all agreements and save them to tendercare
Update information regularly
Remember: This process can be stressful and time-consuming. But doing the due diligence now ensures a safe system for the future. The tendercare app helps you keep all support-related information organized and secure. Use our Vault to store important documents and share access with family members, ensuring everyone has the information they need.
Related Resources:
Creating an Emergency Plan
Transportation Options Guide
Take time to find the right fit - good support can make a significant difference in the quality of life for both you and your loved one.
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