
Greenwich, CT
Elder Law Attorneys
Alessandra Messineo Long, Esq.
Law Offices of Alessandra M. Messineo Long, LLC.
Why tendercare trusts Alessandra
Vetted August 2025 · Verified Member5.0
About Alessandra
Beyond the resume
Alessandra is deeply involved in the Greenwich community. She serves on the Board of the American Red Cross Metro North Chapter and chairs its Nominations Committee. She is also First Vice President and a Board Member of the Old Timers Youth Sports Alliance, a Board Member of the Friends of the Wallace Center, and a sustaining member and Past President of the Junior League of Greenwich. Alessandra is a marathon runner and is married with three children.
Alessandra Messineo Long, Esq., is the founder of a boutique Greenwich law firm serving clients in Connecticut, New York, California, and the District of Columbia.
Her practice focuses on wills, trusts and estates, probate and estate administration, elder law-related matters, and business law. Alessandra takes a highly personalized approach, beginning with a thorough understanding of each client’s legal, financial, and personal circumstances. She then develops practical strategies tailored to the client’s immediate needs, long-term goals, and family legacy.
Known for her accessibility and clear communication, Alessandra helps clients understand their options and make informed decisions with confidence. Her clients receive the attentive, responsive service of a boutique practice, supported by more than 16 years of legal experience.
Alessandra has been recognized as one of Fairfield County’s Top Lawyers from 2021 through 2025 and has received the Lawyers of Distinction award for five consecutive years.
Alessandra offers a rare combination of seasoned broad legal experience, strong community leadership, and the personalized attention of a boutique practice.
She takes a hands-on, educational approach, explaining legal options clearly and helping clients evaluate the advantages and implications of each. Whether assisting with estate planning, elder law concerns, related business matters, or estate administration, Alessandra provides thoughtful and practical guidance with integrity, responsiveness, and transparency.
Licenses & Accreditation:
Connecticut Bar
New York State Bar
District of Columbia Bar
California Bar
tendercare Trusted Network member

Services
Drafting wills, trusts, powers of attorney
Medicaid and asset protection
Filing guardianship / conservatorship
Fraud & elder abuse protection
Special needs trusts
Estate administration
Specialties
Trusts & Estates
Probate & Estate Administration
Elder Law-Related Litigation
Business Law
Service Area
FAQs
Alessandra’s practice focuses on wills, trusts and estates, probate and estate administration, elder law-related litigation, and business law. She also assists clients with Medicaid and asset-protection planning, guardianship and conservatorship matters, special needs trusts, and concerns involving elder abuse or financial exploitation.
Alessandra is admitted to practice in Connecticut, New York, California, and the District of Columbia. Her firm is based in Greenwich, Connecticut, and serves clients throughout the surrounding area as well as clients with legal needs in the other jurisdictions in which she is admitted.
Alessandra provides highly personalized, responsive legal service. She takes the time to understand each client’s circumstances, explain the available options clearly, and develop a practical legal strategy tailored to the client’s needs and goals. Clients also have direct access to Alessandra throughout the engagement.
Fees depend on the nature and scope of the legal services required. Hourly, project-based, and package pricing may be available. The anticipated scope of work and applicable fees are discussed with the client before the engagement begins. There is no cost to families for locating Alessandra through the Tendercare Trusted Network.
Prospective clients may contact the Law Offices of Alessandra M. Messineo Long directly or submit a message through Tendercare. The initial conversation provides an opportunity to discuss the client’s circumstances, identify the legal services that may be appropriate, and review the anticipated next steps and timeline.