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ADUs: A Practical Living Solution for Aging Parents and Loved Ones

Accessory dwelling units and your family

July 23, 2025

🏡Highlights

Keep family close with private, on-property housing (or accessory dwelling unit) for aging parents or loved ones

Understand what’s included in a typical ADU and how to navigate local regulations

Compare options and decide if an ADU is right for your caregiving journey


What Is an ADU?

An Accessory Dwelling Unit (ADU), often called an in-law suite or granny flat, is a small, self-contained home located on the same property as a primary residence. For adult children caring for aging parents or loved ones, ADUs offer a powerful combination of independence and proximity. They provide a private space for seniors to age in place while remaining close enough for daily support and connection.

What’s Included in a Typical ADU?

Most ADUs are fully functional living spaces with:

• A bedroom and living area

• A full bathroom

• A kitchenette or small kitchen

• Accessibility features such as ramps, walk-in showers, and wider doorways

Some units may include smart home technology, emergency response systems, or separate utilities to support privacy and safety, ideal for eldercare situations.

How to Find ADU Regulations in Your Area

Because ADU regulations vary by city, county, and state, it’s essential to research local guidelines before starting your project.

Here’s how to begin:

1. Visit your city’s planning or zoning website to check if ADUs are allowed on your property.

2. Call or email the local building department to confirm rules on size, permits, and occupancy.

3. Check for special programs or incentives that support ADU development for eldercare or multigenerational families.


Benefits of ADUs for Eldercare

Building an ADU for your aging parent or loved one offers several meaningful advantages:

Proximity with independence: Loved ones can live nearby while maintaining privacy and autonomy.

Lower long-term cost: Compared to ongoing nursing home fees, an ADU is often a one-time investment.

Family-first care: You maintain greater control over the environment and level of care provided.

Potential Drawbacks to Consider

While ADUs are a great solution for many, they may not fit every caregiving situation:

Upfront costs: Building an ADU can require significant investment in construction and permits

Zoning challenges: Some municipalities have restrictive rules or long approval timelines

Limited medical support: Unlike nursing homes, ADUs don’t come with full-time healthcare services


Summary

For families caring for aging parents or loved ones, ADUs represent a compassionate and flexible living arrangement that supports aging in place. While they aren’t right for everyone, ADUs provide a unique balance of privacy, independence, and togetherness that can make the caregiving journey more manageable and more meaningful.

At tendercare, we support every stage of eldercare - from researching living options to finding trusted, local resources. Whether you’re building an ADU or weighing alternatives, we’re here to help you care better.

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